One thing I find interesting about having a child is how a mundane event, such as doing the laundry, can turn into a pediatric emergency room visit.
I’ve learned doing laundry in an apartment building with an 18-month old is a great way to tire a kid out. My son really enjoys running down the hallway, taking the elevator, pushing all the buttons, and saying hello to anyone he meets. After my little helper goes back and forth to the laundry room a few times, he’s wiped out. By the time I’m finally folding the clothes on our bed, I just let my son lay down and play with the pillow covers.
Watching him there, my mind relaxed and I enjoyed the moment. Then he leaped up, threw a cover over his head and proceeded to flip off the corner of the bed a la Greg Louganis.
I quickly picked him up in an attempt to ease the pain but, as he always does when it hurts really bad, he held his breath in the middle of a big cry. I thought to myself, no big deal.
But then he passed out. Just — boom.
Um! Oh shit!
He quickly snapped out of it, but the little dude definitely just passed out in the middle of crying.
He continued to cry as I held him and finally fell asleep on me. Instead of laying him down in the crib I held him and slept a little also. When I awoke he was still asleep on me but not for much longer: The sitter was arriving soon and I had to get ready for work.
I could tell there was something not right with him but couldn’t put my finger on it. I told sitter what had happened and to keep on eye out for trouble. I was running late for work now and calling my wife before I left was not what I wanted to do and, in hindsight, maybe I shouldn’t have since she proceeded to freak out. She promptly left work to take our son to the pediatric emergency room while took off for my job.
Soon I was clear across town with a dilemma: let my wife take care of the situation on her own or be with my family.
I chose the latter.
When I showed up at the pediatric emergency room, our son looked fine, but my wife had been waiting for an hour to see someone and that didn’t help calm frayed nerves.
One glaring take away from this experience was that, when they finally saw our son, the doctors and nurses all asked my wife the questions. Nobody once asked me what happened until my wife told mentioned she wasn’t there during the backflip, I was. When are people going to realize the mother isn’t always the person around the child? But I digress.
An hour turned into two and when our son was wheeled into a room for a CT scan. I gave up trying to tell everyone they were taking this a little too far. I really didn’t like it when the doctor’s gave my son some kind of medicine to make him forget what was happening. That was the freakiest part of the entire night because my son was out of it. He looked dazed and exhausted.
We didn’t get home until 10 that night and all we could really do was feed the boy and put him to sleep. What really rocked my already fragile ego as a good parent was when my wife jokingly said, “Well, if he has problems later we know it’s from you letting him do a back flip off the bed.”
Ouch! That hurts.