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Bath Time is for Letting Go, Running Around Naked

February 28, 2012 by Guest Contributor

baby in tub taking a bath

Bath time is a pretty big deal around our house. My daughter’s routine was put into place when she was about six months old and has consisted of dinner, bath, books and bed ever since.  It’s something we do every night and she looks forward to it each time. Dinner, as some of you have read, is not our finest hour some nights, so I welcome the respite from the day’s stress as well.

After dinner when I ask her, “You want to take a bath?”  The response is something like celebrating a Giants touchdown during this year’s Super Bowl.  She throws her hands up and yells, “Dat’s Gwrate!  Ahhhhhhhhhhh!”  This last part, where she is waving her hands around over her head in bath time excitement, involves her running around the house naked.

Naturally, once the clothes and diaper are off, she gets placed on the floor to run presumably into the bathroom for the tub.  This, however, is not always the case and often she peels a right turn down the hallway and runs from one end of the apartment to the other yelling “Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh” and waving her arms over her head.

Now if you have kids and have witnessed this, it is about the most precious moment you have ever seen. It embodies all the wonder, fun, freedom, happiness and good that exists in the world. There is no embarrassment, fear or sadness, there is just the joy of how good it feels to run around naked for a few minutes.  This is something that my wife and I have learned to do from our daughter.  If we find ourselves getting ready in the morning or evening and one of us is getting out of the shower, my daughter will immediately pull her bath time ritual move on us.  “Ahhhhhhhhhhh!”  Running around with her hands in the air and screaming “Naken!  Naken! Naken!”  We have resorted to joining in and having a family moment that none of us will ever forget.

I mean, what could be better?  We, as parents, are reveling in the joy she takes in the simplest thing: not having any clothes on. We are letting go of some of that fear, anxiety and adherence to social law that goes almost unnoticed.  People don’t wonder why nobody is naked, they just freak out when someone is at the wrong time.  By joining our daughter in this fun, we are not saying that it should be done in Central Park; we are just enjoying a private family moment that is as innocent and natural as her instinct to take that right down the hall before the bath.

Who knows how long this will last. There will come a day when my little girl is going to say “Dad, get out of here!”  And I will.  But for now, when she is two and doesn’t realize that it is in any way unusual to run around naked and screaming, I for one am going to join in and enjoy it.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Jack (Jake) Howard Potter resides in New York City with his wife, Erica and (two year old) daughter, Skylar.  Motivated by his study of human anatomy and movement, Howard-Potter works with steel to create large-scale figurative sculptures. His work has been on display throughout the world in outdoor sculpture parks, galleries and public art exhibitions.  Aside from being his daughter’s primary caregiver, He is an active endurance athlete competing in multiple half marathons and triathlons each year.  To view his work or learn more, visit www.steelstatue.com or visit @steelstatue on Twitter or Facebook.
Bath time photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash

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  1. Beta Dad says

    February 28, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    Had to check this out when I saw your tweet. I love it when my kids (2.75-yr old twin girls) go on naked rampages (they’re doing puzzles naked right now); but I’m too much of a prude to run around neggy-butt in front of them. They’re all over my wife’s boobs when she’s showering, etc., and I just don’t want them messing with my junk. Or looking, thinking, asking questions about it, etc.

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  2. Anonymous says

    February 29, 2012 at 1:56 am

    did he say “junk”???

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  3. Anonymous says

    February 29, 2012 at 5:42 am

    My daughter says “nakie bum, nakie bum!” and does the exact same thing. Also she saw my hubby in the bath the other day and said, “dadda, you have a tail.”

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  4. Timothy Bennett says

    November 2, 2021 at 12:37 am

    Last year A little girl comes outside with her parents and she takes off running I heard her giggling when she ran by back and forth she was naked it was hot ? outside that day 86 degrees she was streaking outside for two hours or more she was having fun naked

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