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How Much Does a Divorce Cost? Constant Work Helps Keep Marriage Alive

April 17, 2019 by Guest Contributor 2 Comments

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"How much does a divorce cost?" I asked myself this when my wife was pregnant with our second child, Justice. I even Googled this very question. I don't remember what the answers were, but I knew they weren't for me. A divorce was going to cost me money, a divorce was going to cost me time, and a divorce was going to cost me my family. When my wife was pregnant with our first child, Journey, pregnancy was a new experience for both of us. It was such an exciting time. I was all in and completely connected with the entire process, from the second my wife's said "I'm pregnant" all the way … [Read more...]

Filed Under: relationships Tagged With: divorce, Jonathan Oliver, marriage, spouses and partners

Being a Husband to One’s Own Husband Makes for a Great Partnership

May 30, 2018 by Seth Taylor Leave a Comment

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When Chris and I first got married, I was charmed and amused by the notion that I, a man-person, now had a Husband. I had a Husband while simultaneously being a Husband myself. My inner child loved it, finding it both weird and silly. That kid voice in my head actually giggled: "He's your HUSBAND? But you're both boys!" It was unusual, and extremely pleasing, to talk about my Husband, rather than my Partner. And way better than talking about my Boyfriend. I also realized how much I enjoyed hearing myself being referred to as Husband once again, in this new chapter of my … [Read more...]

Filed Under: gender / sexuality, relationships Tagged With: LGBTQ parents, marriage, sexual orientation

Blending Families of Different Races Brings Challenges, Blessings

March 29, 2017 by Guest Contributor 5 Comments

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Successfully blending families through a new marriage requires a lot of patience with the all issues that arise for stepsiblings, stepparents, stepchildren and, many times, ex-spouses. When blending families also means blending race, as my family is, it becomes a balancing act. My wife is white and I am black. From my previous marriage, I have three kids who are of mixed race, black and white. My wife has two boys who are white, also from a previous marriage. This creates a unique dynamic. While many people can forget the differences they see in other races and cultures throughout the day … [Read more...]

Filed Under: ethnicity / race Tagged With: blended families, marriage

Divorced Dad Worries about Legacy of Loving Left for Sons

February 22, 2017 by Guest Contributor 1 Comment

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I see what I want for my own children: always to have love in their lives ... whether that be in a monogamous, lifelong relationship or whether their evolutions take them on journeys with multiple partners — or other forms I can’t even imagine. _____________ I have been to a couple of weddings in the past few months. As one who has been married and divorced twice, I have felt myself wince each time when the couples pledged to be together for life. The wince registers on many levels. An abiding sense of failure on my part, particularly with my second marriage. I have two sons, now ages 10 … [Read more...]

Filed Under: relationships Tagged With: divorce, marriage, single dads

When My Child Becomes Our Child

October 17, 2016 by Guest Contributor Leave a Comment

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Editor’s Note: City Dads Group is proud to occasionally feature writing from members of The Handsome Father, a support community that helps connect, prepare and inspire gay fathers. In this piece, Patrick Roth writes about letting his new husband into his daughter's life. I was a single parent during my daughter’s preschool years. It was a period of transition for us. We moved from the West Coast to the Midwest, contracted to build our first house and learned to live with the new dynamic of single dad and his little girl. I can remember tucking her in, reading bedtime stories and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: relationships Tagged With: adoption, divorce, LGBTQ parents, marriage, single dads, The Handsome Father

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