City Dads Group

Navigating Fatherhood Together

  • About Us
  • What is City Dads Group?
  • Contact
  • Meetups
  • Boot Camps
  • Start a Group
  • Join A Group
  • Podcast
  • Outreach
  • Press
  • Blog

Dads in Line Getting Coffee

December 4, 2019 by Whit Honea 4 Comments

lonely cup of coffee on a counter

I met a friend for coffee the other day. It’s something we try to do on a regular basis, which, apparently, means once every eight months. Our schedules have proven difficult to align, despite our living two miles apart, having kids at the same school, and working in similar creative fields. It takes half a year and two dozen texts to create 90 minutes of quality time at Starbucks, 15 of which are spent standing in line. This is the sum of our parts, a life defined by new math and the old habits we cannot help but cling to. This is a pattern in my life, and I’m not sure how I got here. … [Read more...]

Filed Under: relationships, work-life balance Tagged With: friendship, social life

Mixed Gender Sleepovers: Cause for Scandal or Celebration of Diversity

November 6, 2019 by Guest Contributor 2 Comments

Girl whispers to boy in pajamas at a mixed gender sleepover

My oldest is now 10. Last year, or maybe it was two years ago, he went to a sleepover birthday party as kids do. At the time, I didn't think anything of the fact that he was the only boy on the invite list. After the party ended, I forgot it had even happened. I was at another birthday party a few months ago where the topic was "that party with the boy sleeping over." The parents were sagely nodding to each other, relieved that one girl just went for the movie and didn’t sleep over. According to the group wisdom, her parents had done well. "Uh, yeah," I finally said. "That one boy there … [Read more...]

Filed Under: gender / sexuality, relationships Tagged With: friendship, gender equality, gender identity, Roberto Santiago, sexual orientation, sleepovers

Fathers Celebrated for Mountains of Worthwhile Life Advice

June 12, 2019 by Vincent O'Keefe Leave a Comment

father helps son climb down mountain fathers

“Don’t be daft!” That’s one of the most memorable fatherly mantras from my childhood. It came courtesy of Jerry, the father of Tim, one of my best childhood buddies. I was lucky enough to grow up with about a dozen close friends, and Tim’s house was often our headquarters, thanks in part to his beloved father. At first, I didn’t know what “daft” meant. But since Jerry would usually bellow the words half-jokingly after some of our shenanigans, I learned it meant “foolish” or “silly.” Jerry died years ago, but his mantra returned recently as I packed for a trip to Folly Beach, S.C. That … [Read more...]

Filed Under: holidays, memories, parenting advice, relationships Tagged With: Father's Day, friendship, life lessons, sons

Bedroom Sharing Days Over, Siblings Split for Better or Worse?

February 13, 2019 by Whit Honea Leave a Comment

boys in bunk bed talking in bedroom

The distance between them is a mix of years and meters, measures in degrees of space and sound and time. Two boys joined at the bloodline, bound by fate and floor plans, my sons have shared a bedroom from the beginning, their bunked barracks always a common ground. That changed last week. For the first time ever, the boys are each in their own room. They believe they have gained freedom and independence, which is true. But I cannot help fear a paradise lost in nightly confidants and the whispers between them. Also, a place for potential guests should any care to visit. This change in the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: growing up, relationships, teens / tweens Tagged With: boys, brothers, friendship, sleep

Stopping for Beers on a Tuesday Evening

September 5, 2018 by Whit Honea Leave a Comment

Tuesday Beers

“Tuesday,” I repeated, my voice rising quickly on the last syllable, a vocal jump toward the edge of inquiry. “Did you say Tuesday?” I asked, now fully committed to the line of questioning. “Sure,” he said. “I’ll pick you at 7.” I put it on my calendar. I checked again to make sure the day was right. Then I started wondering what Wednesday would be like. Would I find the strength to carry on? Honestly, I don’t know why the idea of grabbing a beer with a friend on a Tuesday night registered the way it did. I’ve done social things on plenty of Tuesdays. And there’s a fairly good chance … [Read more...]

Filed Under: work-life balance Tagged With: friendship, humor, working parents

  • 1
  • 2
  • Next Page »

Subscribe to our newsletter

Privacy


City Dads on YouTube


Join a City Dads Meetup Near You

Join a Group

Popular Recent Posts

  • Remote Learning: Is it Causing Your Kid to Fall Behind in School?
  • Family Habits: How to Change Bad Ones and Reinforce Good Ones
  • COVID Sleep Issues Not Always Bad Says This Newborn Early Bird
  • Life Enhancement Should Be Everyone’s Priority During Our Precious Time
  • Pawn Shop Prepared This Fella for Life as a Parent
  • College Roommates Bad? Trying Living with My Children
Visit the Blog

As seen, heard, and read in:

  • Contact
  • About Us
  • Join City Dads Groups in these Cities
  • Resources
  • Media Kit
  • Advertise
Copyright 2019 City Dads Group | Privacy Policy