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Help Daughters Develop Strong Voices, Become Confident Women

February 10, 2021 by Vincent O'Keefe 2 Comments

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Do you ever fear your home is too much of a haven from the “real world”? As a former stay-at-home dad of two daughters now approaching young adulthood, I sometimes wonder if our family bubble of gender equity has prepared them adequately for the larger culture’s reduced-but-still-entrenched sexism. Fortunately, What Girls Need, a new book by Marisa Porges, offers tips about how parents can serve as a bridge for their children between home and the larger world. While her tips are focused on raising daughters, many apply to raising sons as well. Her foundational advice is to help each girl … [Read more...]

Filed Under: gender / sexuality, parenting advice, relationships Tagged With: books, daughters, feminism, gender roles, stay-at-home parents, tips

Parents Need to Know History to Help Children Prepare for Future

December 11, 2019 by Vincent O'Keefe Leave a Comment

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One of the pleasures of being a parent of teens is the long history you can reflect on. From time’s perch, you can finally start assessing what went right as a parent. (You can also assess what went wrong, but that’s for another post.) During my younger parenting years, I had always heard that if a parent models a behavior at home, a child is very likely to adopt that behavior, eventually. As a writer and former professor, I’ve always tried to model my love of reading history as a way to counteract our increasingly context-free culture of media soundbites and tweet-size attention … [Read more...]

Filed Under: gender / sexuality, parenting advice Tagged With: daughters, feminism

‘Raising Empowered Daughters’ Starts with Dads at Home

May 6, 2019 by Kevin McKeever 1 Comment

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Best-selling author and OG dad blogger Mike Adamick tells The Modern Dads Podcast he thinks fathers changing the conversation about boys and parenting is a good start to raising girls to be strong and independent. Raising Empowered Daughters: A Dad-to-Dad Guide, to be released in June 2019, is "a fists-up handbook for helping dads dismantle the patriarchy," Adamick's website. On the show, he and host Whit Honea talk about Adamick's efforts to meet dads where they are to discuss equality, representation and feminism. One way, he says, is to start by changing the way we talk about boys and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: gender / sexuality Tagged With: books, boys, daughters, feminism, Modern Dad Podcast, podcasts, sons

Why My Daughter Has Her Mother’s Last Name Instead of Mine

January 30, 2019 by Guest Contributor Leave a Comment

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My daughter is Isabella Gutierrez Marcelino. My last name is Gutierrez – but that’s actually my daughter’s middle name. We gave her my wife’s last name – Marcelino. I’m not ashamed of my family's name. I’m proud to be a Gutierrez. The name is always a reminder of my dad, my hero, who still works day and night to ensure the people he loves are always taken care of. As Stef and I started family planning, I was at a crossroads. Why is it that we value one last name over the other? When I knew we were having a girl, I began to think about why my daughter should automatically just come … [Read more...]

Filed Under: relationships Tagged With: daughters, feminism, Marlon Gutierrez, names, spouses and partners

Sexual Misconduct: Dads, It’s Time to Finally Fix This

December 20, 2017 by Vincent O'Keefe Leave a Comment

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Men — especially dads — have to change what we frown upon. We have to accept that sexual misconduct hurts us all, much like secondhand smoke affects the air we all breathe. It has been said that when women discuss a problem with men, they are often looking for emotional support, not help with a solution. But when it comes to the sexual misconduct issue ricocheting through our culture, that notion is mistaken. Women are doing their share to fix the issue by courageously raising more awareness, reporting more abuses, and demanding more consequences. It is time for more men to join the fight and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: parenting advice, relationships Tagged With: feminism, harassment, masculinity, sex

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