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Light Still Can Be Found Even Amid Darkness of These Times

September 23, 2020 by Guest Contributor 1 Comment

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I’m gonna break character here and tell y'all something. Normally, I try to remain positive and affirmative and gentle, bordering on Pollyannaish, but some days I feel different, discordant … broken. The something I want to tell you seems obvious to me. These are dark fucking times. You may quote me. The news, honestly, breaks me often. The pain and suffering. The jingoism and economic imbalance. Pleas for money so our kids can fucking eat. Campaigns that say nothing of weight or promise and only attack with a ferocity that shears my soul. I go on Facebook -- the only social network I … [Read more...]

Filed Under: news, parenting styles Tagged With: Bill Peebles, coping, COVID19, emotions, fears, politics

Best Parenting Moments Can Still Define Us, Even at Our Worst

May 20, 2020 by Andrew Knott Leave a Comment

Somehow, I ended up arguing with my oldest child about doughnut holes. Again. My three kids and I were driving to my mom’s house late on a Sunday morning. As is tradition during our hour-long drive, we swung into the drive-thru to pick up coffee for me and a treat for the kids to share. After collecting the bounty, I always pass the cup of doughnut holes to the kids in the back seat and they fight like a pack of agitated badgers over whose turn it is to hold the cup and dole out the contents. Holder of the cup is the highest of honors, so a fair amount of squabbling and thrashing is to be … [Read more...]

Filed Under: parenting advice, relationships Tagged With: anger, discipline, emotions

‘I’m Sorry’ Teaches Your Kids You Promise to Do Better By Them

May 11, 2020 by Brandon Billinger Leave a Comment

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“PLEASE GET YOUR SHOES ON! I’ve asked you five times, and if you don’t get them on RIGHT NOW, I’m leaving you home alone by yourself!” It seems those words come out of my mouth once, maybe twice a week while we go through the morning routine. Throw in a "damn" here and there, and it might be more accurate. At some point in one's parenting career, we all experience these feelings. Before you start to call the authorities, no -- I would never leave my son home alone. It’s one of those empty promises we offer our children so that they do what we are asking of them. If you don’t do this too, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: parenting advice, parenting styles, relationships Tagged With: anger, emotions, sorry

Optimistic Parenting: Change ‘Oh, No! to ‘Oh, Well’ for More Upbeat Kids

November 13, 2019 by Vincent O'Keefe Leave a Comment

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Is your family generally optimistic? In today’s anxiety-inducing culture, optimism can be elusive — especially for kids. Fortunately, a new book titled Making Lemonade: Teaching Young Children to Think Optimistically can help parents nurture their children’s sense of optimism from an early age. Laura Colker and Derry Koralek are early childhood educators who begin their book with a hopeful premise: optimism is primarily a learned way of thinking, not an inborn mindset. Genes account for “about 25 percent of our optimism ... the other 75 percent is determined by environment, social … [Read more...]

Filed Under: parenting advice, parenting styles Tagged With: books, emotions

Not Collapsing into Other’s Emotions Shows, Builds Courage in Kids

January 21, 2019 by Guest Contributor Leave a Comment

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EDITOR’S NOTE: Being a good parent at times takes superhero skills. To help you develop your own, “The Relational Book for Parenting” authors Saliha Bava and Mark Greene offer suggestions from their book. Go here to read more in this exclusive periodic series for City Dads Group. We previously wrote about the power of listening with curiosity. As we get into additional relationship super powers, we'll refer back to previous ones and show how all interconnect and interrelate. Growing these relationship super powers, what we sometimes call our “relational intelligence,” provides us with a web … [Read more...]

Filed Under: parenting advice, relationships Tagged With: emotions, Mark Greene, Saliha Bava, The Relational Book for Parenting

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